Cognitive Therapy for Children

PARENTING: WHICH ROAD DO I HAVE TO TAKE TO REAR A GOOD CHILD?Not that its not proper, it is just that things happens differently in real life.THE PROCESS OF BEING A NEW PARENTYou must admit, that we tend to forget how it is to just relax and get stuck with our boring lifestyle and jobs.Remember that too much of criticism is not going to do any good in any parent and child relationships.Proper and good parenting skills teaches you how to actually listen to your child’s needs and not relinquish them, but it is all up to you on how can you stand strong and see the issues in your child’s eyes and end to a solution that will please you both.PARENTING AS A NEVER-ENDING JOBParenting is the most underpaid job ever; you do not even earn anything from being a parent.Children now, regardless of their age needs help and proper guidance from you their parents.By the time your child steps out on the world at 18, they are considered as an adult (well, in some cases this may not be applicable).TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCEThis may be the thought that they have in mind “I’m important enough that’s why I was given responsibilities.Most of the time, it is out of you own desire for materialistic pressures, or to be liked, and sometimes fervent wish that your child may be spared of the things that you did not experience as a child, as an action you would want to do your best to give them nothing but the best of everything.You  would make them have a fun childhood memories, or in a way heal your own emotional wounds by doing all of these to your children, you are interfering with your child’s development unconsciously.GET MORE COMPLIANCE IN NINE WAYS!I really love it every time I hear other kids say, YES! YES! Then you can tickle your child or even use humour just to see if you actually can get your child to say YES!Always relate your command as a statement, and never as a question . Most parents are prone to saying, would you like to start doing your homework now? and other commands which should always be stated using a firm voice. Try saying, You can watch right after dinner.By using rewards – You can focus on your child’s positive attitude instead of the negatives.MAKE MEMORIES WITH QUALITY FAMILY TIMEAvoid criticisms, arguing or squabbling.It is important to always keep positive and upbeat conversation topics.As your goal is to produce long lasting good memories from these conversations over a family dinner, and you want your family looking forward to spending more of these moments together.COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMSOh, Yes! We’ve been through difficult years or so, and then of course we know a lot better compared to our children, what we must bear in mind is that time changes and what might be right for us may also not right for our children.I have been corrected a lot of times before by being rebuked that “Its way different now” or by “Mom that happen to be years ago” it seems that the children makes a point in that sense. We are trying to guide our children to the best of our knowledge by relieving our very own childhood/teen years and the truth of the matter is that we haven’t really moved forward at present time.Resources:Parenting

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